The world needs pretenders now more than ever. You see, it is the pretenders who become giants. But this process must begin within a frame of anothers choosing. This "another" is the unseen truth you feel but cannot interpret. You just know it's there. The "frame" is the context of a seemingly unexplored garden you already know. If it is forced or occurs out of context and/or at the wrong point in your personal history based on what you had to begin with; along with every socialization opportunity that has been either presented to you or some other thing, then the flow, or currents in life will be stronger. What comes through thye changing tides is a more refined and wiser you. To have that benefit of experience is more valuable than a graham cracker at Christmas. LLc 98.2