I think from the beginning we all want to be accepted. Being accepted fulfills the idea of self worth and friendship. Being accepted brings forth a feeling of comfort where desires can be met and the forces of the world can work in your favor. But the fact is that there are many people acting like they are being friendly even when they are not. This can damage you when they figure out that your friends have been lying about you behind your back and to your face. This is not being accepted. This is being ridiculed for whatever reason. Being accepted is not as important as we think it to be. People are going to do what they do and say what they say regardless of whether or not they accept you as the person you are. To go along with that, there is jealousy. You can always count on jealousy to be an intrigal part of not being accepted.