failure as winning

We should not frame our thoughts and desires around the thoughts and actions of other people. If we do this, and find similiar successes as those we follow, then what we have is a success that does not belong to us. It simply means that we can follow a pattern that has been proven to be worth while in the minds and realities of other people. That makes us dependants and nothing more. It does not take a rocket scientist to realize success from a ready made roadway. The only thing that can be accomplished in this instance is a scheduled departure from self. It means that for all that we have accomplished, we have done nothing but follow a path without picking up a single shovel full. Oh we may have lots of shovels, but I am sure we will find someone else to do the digging just like someone else did the digging and sweating for us. Either way we have the desired effect and that is all that matters as we stand in the middle of something that is truely not ours; leaving all singularity for those who fail and live in their creations.