striking somewhat

In our consciousness we endeavor the best they can see. We seek the approval of those who we admire even if we don't even know them or have nay reason to trust them. We do this in the hope of self improvement and material gain; not to mention the social standing and responsibility that comes with these roles. What is unexpected is coming to grips with the knowledge that those you once thought to be your friends are actually not as close as you would have liked. That said it is the number one most important thing to become involved in persuits that are relevant only to you. Balance comes when you learn how to treat people along the way by remaining leary of those who strike a pose at every chance they see a reflection of themselves; to check themselves and make sure their presentation is somewhat striking and individualistic.