Consistency comes through fluidity. If you are choppy and unorthodox, you will have a choppy and unorthodox type of life; probably shorter than the average as well. The choppy people are fun to hang with, but learning anything from them is an uphill climb. They do try but fail; which is more than most people do.
So, how do we become more consistent in life? If I knew the answer to that one, I would never tell anyway. But, being consistent has nothing to do with routine. It has nothing to do with acting the same in every situation. It has everything to do with you. Understanding you is hard to do in this place now. Self analyzing reveals all but misses many points.
Thinking and doing are two separate things, but thinking is required before action. If actions are done in accordance with the fluid model of consistency; separate from me and you, then daily life will be less stressful. Eliminate the anger horses, they drag you behind them. Eliminate anything in your life that causes you to be comfortable in your stress. That is addictive because it opens up the excuse vault; usually consistent with family inconsistencies.
If you enjoy fooling yourself, then there can be no fluidity. No fluidity equals no satisfaction. From there your simply screwed until you find the time to be honorable to you. It is ok to be unorthodox. Just be prepared to sail upon rough waters from time to time. Check the sail that comes with your discontent. I bet it is consistently present locked away inside that big storage unit of your mind; all white and creased. LLc 98.2
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