It's sort of funny how people never seem to get that it is a bad idea to get with an artist, of any kind (successful or not) and expect things to be just so all the time. Rules don't apply to artistically driven people. Just like all personality types, the artist can be artful at turning your life, your life, into something far and away from what and where it should be. And the bitch of it all, especially in cases like that, is the everyday life that is being acted out is being done with the full knowledge that it is just that... an act. It's no different than prison except this is the worst prison of them all, the mind.