We all look the same, walk the same, use the same modes of communication, like the same things, dislike the same things, look the same, feel the same, share the same likes and dislikes in movies, enjoy the same programs on tv, and we have the same desires in life which is to be difficult, demanding, egocentric, selfish, simple yet complicated, and just plain confused.
Why are there more self help books than there are books emphasizing what it means to be happy? Take what is wrong with yourself and embrace it as part of you. It will never go away. Cut a deal with yourself, for the sake of yourself. Realize you are human and you have weaknesses and strengths like everyone else.
Try and play on the dry field as much as possible but every now and then turn the sprinklers on for a few hours and then play. Difficulties come and go and we learn to play the game in all conditions. We would all love to play on warm sunny daze, but some daze bring rain. This is why practice makes perfect and good shoes are the only thing we NEED to succeed in the happiness we seek. 98.2