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Those who look for simplicity among the difficulties we inevitably face simplify too much the situations that required muddled thinking to begin with. This fact however does not stop us from placing more wood on an already burning fire. This then becomes even more difficult to put out; some it takes a lifetime because the words used during these times of heat linger on inside the one who receives them. In time the one who spoke those words will look back on opportunities missed with that someone who is loved by him or her, which is why the words were used in the first place.
So now we have two occasions where decisions were made in a muddled way and the following words serve to settle no disputes but to increase them in time. Looking for simplicity, by looking alone, solves nothing but to postpone the inevitable. Face that which brought you there in the first place and find solutions through communication. Once the lines are available, dialogue can open a whole new relationship with the one's who hurt; all of us(you). Often times, once this new dialogue is established, simplicity can be found in time and that makes the process smoother for everyone involved.