unhappiness pool

In our psyche there exists the perfect moment in time. It is referred to in tough times rarely and always in times of happiness. This tells me that happiness breeds happy things. Is it possible to be happy all the time? NO it is not, especially in a place where there is so much unhappiness thrown our way. This gives us a pool to swim in that brings ample opportunity to derive pleasure from unhappy things. Because we get so caught up in unhappy things, we lose sometimes our ability to become happy: happy can be so unfamiliar at times we can have it and neer even know it; a reflection of our existence in the pool of unhappiness. We derive pleasure in the search for happiness and we are told this search is wise. If we never had to become a part of this big swim, we could in fact dig our own pool and fill it with warm water for those cold days when we feel so alone.

this is not

What is expected, what is drawn upon, is completely false with the exception of the creator. What is taken for fact is not so, yet we make distinctions between these forces that bring about doubt and discovery of our lost selves. We can become forgotten in lingering tidepools with our faces just above the water; spinning and spinning. Like a grape in the sun our faces will become dark and wilted while our bodies remain cool on the inside. Soon the masks we drape over ourselves shelter and confuse us into believing that this spinning sensation is ok and normal. In time we realize the ride is much better when we free ourselves from that place and allow the unknown to occur freely and without conscious thought. This is all part of the individual journey that must be individualistic. If we live our lives by the tones of those who came before us, we regress and all things remain unchanged in time. This is not progress!

egnahc

There must be a constancy of change in life. In order for this to happen, we must abandon our habits that bring us the kind of seclusion in happiness we are encouraged to achieve and rely upon. Those who make real changes can never be satisfied with the comfort of blankets and pillows. The comfort they seek is on a much broader scale that entails passionate divergence into that which cannot be predicted or seen to be a detriment.

know? NO!

I saw educated people make distinctions no man could make and draw conclusions from weaved lies for their own benefit. I saw grown adults lay claim to the divine as a foundation and expectation for all others to follow without any significant reason other than to promote their own job position in the eyes of who got them there. How is it possible for educated people to claim answers to questions nobody can possibly know? How is it possible for any person to know what is best for everyone? Those who claim to know are no better off than anyone else, they just have their own interests to protect above the interests of those whom they have never even met. Does this make sense to anyone? I should say not!

should be a color

One thing adults need to understand and recognize is that kids see more than they do. For some kids, their issue may be a simple one. They may see the hypocracy that exists in the social world that is backed up and confirmed by what they see both in real life (home environment) and in the images they see. It could be that they are unhappy about the many compromises they see adults make and find it difficult to find a spot among all the muck and selfishness; lying and deceitful practices that inevitably take place. They might find it difficult to create anything useful and it is in this way that kids may see themselves as unwilling participants in they grey that they believe should be a color.

less is less

It is useless to compare yourself with what you see on tv. That is the equivalent of comparing chocolate syrup to dynamite. The thing is, everything on tv is complete fiction. Even in news stories we only get the partial picture and it is in that sense it is fiction. We all need to remember that media is ran by money grubbers who give what people want; but what people want is dictated by what they see on tv. Do you understand that the entire process is like a monkey having sex with cabbage; there is no purpose and understanding.
We are all suckers and our lives are less because of it. Never compare fiction with what is real; you will lose each and every time. But hey, for all your depression and feelings of inadequacy, the pharmaceutical companies advertised on tv have your solution. Isn't this fun?

theirs not ours

Refuse to close your eyes. If you cannot see your ears will suffice. If no ears, you can rely on what everyone else relies on; the shirt-tails of other people who have questionable notions of what constitutes the consideration of anyone else but themselves and their condition. They pass this on to you/us not through fault, but through their humanness unashamed and bashful. Suppression of what is natural to them requires change which would be the same as admitting they were wrong. Few people, of any age, are capable of this yet we all want this in one form of the other while holding on to the values of other people who have supplied us with our security tools and core values we fight so directly inside.