haha, good morning wind and air.

Issues between the sexes there are many. What is so displeasing is how unrealistic we can be not only to ourselves but to others as well. The constant search for the utopian eistence is futile as one cannot even make it real inside his or her own mind. Some may say it is better to at least have a utopian plan or lasting image of something better than to have a defeatist attitude. I say it is unrealistic and counter-productive to have such images but none of us can help it. A man has images in his head. They include exactly and precisely what we see everyday. Is that a real existence? The issues between the sexes are many and we are all unrealistic and we all suffer because of it. Now that is real!
Being real about someone is never enough. Loving someone is never enough. Nothing will ever be enough. I feel sad for people who see things this way. This is something I see each and every day. There is wisdom in silence and balance in acceptance. No acceptance, no balance. Such a sad cycle of fake smiles and greying hair, bad actors with blank stares. Is this what we are now? Are we sad actors with fake smiles? Are we really ever satisfied in our quest for love? The answer is yes. There is love and it is very real. And when it bites ya, it's your ass baby! lol

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Take all of your pain and all of your sorrow. all the happiness and every tomorrow and take it with you wherever you go- wear it well and let it show. Never let it be said that you lived your life for anyone but yourself. In order to do this, one must learn to take chances which means revealing that which is precious and personal leaving you open for anguish and sorrow. Thus the cycle continues.
Isolation works well for the swelled head. There is safety in that. I know my isolation and it is a special place where no harm comes to me- and there I am truely free. I like to hide my pain and keep it near. That way I will always have one at the ready to bail me out when things get tight. All anyone needs is room to breathe, right? cowards, the lot of em!
What is a moron? Member Of Rational Occupations Networks. Yes, these people actually feel as though they have the answers. They believe in the promotion and escalation of self above all things. Their opinions mean more to them than anything else and they need to let people know just how smart they are either through silence and mystery , academics, or idle chit chat. A moron is someone who holds themselves high up in the heirarchy of those classified, past or present, as incredibly smart. They work with people who also believe they are correct in all matters. I mean to tell you, the visual of such genius all grouped together, well, it is truely a biblical experience.