thorny

If an adult limits a child whether it be through silence or loudness or violence or being critical, then it is the adult who is hurting. This hurt and pain gets transferred onto and into the child, taking up valuable space inside where growth once took place only to be replaced with anger and frustration. These seeds grow into tall and lanky plants; short and stubby ones, that require far too much attention with hardly any water. This is where tha cacti grow thorny in the sand. LLc 98.2

uncool

There is a plausible explanation for anything if it is framed, packaged, and sold correctly. This is not difficult these days as we have become used to hearing even the most outlandish excuses for some of the most outlandish situations and activities of people. I beat my kid because it is how I was raised. I yell all day because my mother yelled all day and it's all I know. Well, in this example, obviously he or she knows differently and is unwilling to change because it is much easier to think with your head jammed up your ass and just put everything else on regurgitation-like autopilot. LLc 98.2

make and break

What becomes of order when order is constructed? In time order changes just as values change. Reflection comes as the older verify their time. In their mind, their order was correct. These days, order is lost in the mechanized performances of people. Why? because actors by design need recognition for their actions. If recognition comes from someone from a different time, an older boss for example, then this is one way for the old days to continue. If we desire something new, what is required is unknown and often disconcerting to many who have become used to their perceived order; their own way. Order is nothing more than ways of acting in accordance with the rule makers and breakers. LLc 98.2

no nothing

If you have lost your passion for living or you feel closed in by the conditions under which you live, the last thing you need to hear from anyone is, "why don't you just move?" The reason we cannot do that is because we become what we own and we place a higher value on objects than we do our own personal satisfaction. This of course unless you tinker with shit. In that case things are groovy. But if you are the average Joe driving the kick ass Honda with the thump and the bump, for example, and you have many more objects, then you cannot just bail and find traction elsewhere. Someone has to pay for all that shit. So, we have concluded then that objects mean more than satisfaction and balls! LLc 98.2

word

If it is answers you seek, your past has them all. If you choose to not learn from them, you can expect the same things to continue with the answers lurking like a cat in the bush waiting to pounce on some helpless bird. But the answers never pounce. You have to search them out. Hopefully in time we can all find our own individual answers so that one day maybe the communication between people can improve without any pre-conditions or misuse of words in the ideology department. LLc 98.2

hairs of grey

I see people forcing their issues, playing sides against one another and making things difficult for everyone around them. They have their reasonings, but the main justification is simple: that is how I was raised! This is the easy way and used often as a replacement for thinking. It just seems easier to be a shit than it is to be a real man or woman. If you are not happy, then it is within your power to get out forever. Forcing the issue never works and only serves to place grey hairs upon thy head. LLc 98.2

season and the day

Some days are longer than others and our moods become altered by the season and the day. The circumstances involved in any interaction cause us to think sometimes in ways we are not altogether used to. Within the interaction frame lies three main categories: expectation, flirtation, and obligation. Expectation is broad enough here to be applied in this way: No interaction occurs without the expectation of some information, otherwise there would be no need for interaction at all. Flirtation is the same as feeling your way around during the interaction. Flirtation means simply to use ones own physical attributes in a way that is useful and always leading to another better thing. Obligation means nothing more than saying the things you need to say in order to get through your day without causing issues for yourself or at least one other person. This day was longer than most because I did what I said I would do and followed through. Maybe someday I can waist a day away and do perhaps nothing. I bet that day would be rather enjoyable. LLc 98.2