man/woman besides

What matters most is not our desire to fit into any one particular structure but to become whole and unified in one binding idea with the self that is predicated on the notion that what is said and felt has value so long as these things are coming from a part of you that is truely sincere. This matters because we all have a tendency to lose our faith in the number one most important thing; the belief that what we feel has value so long as that belief has its foundation in what is real. The differences between what is real and what is not is sometimes difficult and often blurry. We have a tendency toward acceptance and this is what weakens us all. Never abandon the dream but keep that dream a dream and nothing more. If you decide to make the dream real, be prepared for a non-static existence that is sure to be worth a few words later on down the road. That is what makes life worth living and that should be the goal of all man and woman.